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Tears are followed by a smile. If you see the rope tighten and tighten. When the fire was set for him. You know it not. This is because they look only at the wall and door of the room.

Be you coolness and safety for Qur 'an Therefore do not be in despair: And verily. Those that are slaves of the moment see only misery and wretchedness. Give to the afflicted tidings of a sudden relief that will reach them with the speed of light or with the blinking of an eye.

Convert a lemon into a sweet drink 43 Convert a lemon into a suieet drink An intelligent and skillful person transforms losses into profits. When Abi Dhu'aib al-Hadhali's children died before him. And if someone gives you a snake as a gift. Imam Ibn Taymiyah was put into prison.. They both squeezed. The Prophet bpuh was compelled to leave Makkah. Imam Ahmad ibn Hanbal was severely tortured and flogged. Imam Ibn al-Jawzi seven recitations of the Qur'an.

France imprisoned two brilliant poets: Imam As-Sarakhsi was held as a prisoner. If someone were to hand you a glass full of squeezed lemons. He [better than. In them. The optimist then stared at the stars and laughed. Who He is Allah. Is not He [better than your gods] Who responds to the distressed rjds not He [better than your gods] Who responds to the distressed one. If you have found Him. None has the right to be except Him.. And if you lose your faith in Him.

By supplicating to Him you are performing one of Qur 'an I refer you to the books of the Sunnah. He saves the one who is drowning. When you seclude yourself from evil in this manner. He is near. As for gatherings wherein frivolity and prevail. Take flight from such gatherings. When you isolate yourself from things that divert you from Allah's obedience. When you seclude yourself from evil and idleness. Cling to His door.

The results are increases in faith. Place your forehead on the ground and mention His praises. He hears all and answers those who supplicate to Him. Enough for Y01l is your home 45 the highest forms of worship. Enough for you is your home The words 'isolation' and 'seclusion' have a special meaning in our religion: Raise your hands in supplication. All ropes are cut loose save His. If you are persistent and sincere in your supplication. J will respond to your [invocationjs Qur 'an So use your time well and save your life from being wasted.

He compensates you with something better. Hold your tongue from backbiting. When you apply this advice. By mixing with others based on foolish motives. Your recompense is with Allah When Allah. Faith is life itself 47 Those that are afflicted in this world and are close to Allah will be praised in the highest part of heaven: Inside it will be mercy.

They are always in a state of misery and anger. Excellent indeed is the final home! And it is they who are the guided-ones. What they perceive around them is this life alone: The Hereafter is better and everlasting. Because of this desire. The person who is afflicted with hardship should reflect upon the outcome in the Hereafter. And whosoever works hard here shall find ease there. As for those who cling to this world. And We shall pay Qur 'an How base and mean is a life without faith!

How eternally accursed is the existence enveloping those who are outside of the boundaries set down by Allah! All praise is due to Allah and He is upon all things capable. Lord of all that exists. In fact. After centuries of experience. Paradise strong or weak. The best course of action that a confirmed atheist can take. At least by doing so. People who lead this 'good life' will also have calm nerves when afflicted with hardship. Extract the honey but do not break the hive Everything that has gentleness in it is beautified.

These blessed people have a code of conduct entitled: Extract the honey hut do nor break the hive 49 The 'good life' that is mentioned in this verse refers to having a firm faith in the promise of our Lord and a steady heart that loves Him.

There are certain personalities are like magnets. Allah ordered the faithful believers to be patient at the time oj anger. Their mere presence in a gathering is a blessing. When a bee lands on a flower doing so for a practical purpose it does not destroy it.

When you meet someone. And there is no deed that gives such pleasure to the heart. And the Believer is he whom others trust. Also give glad tidings to them of a great reward in the Hereafter.

They are in a state of calmness. They forget evil that was enacted upon them and preserve the memory of kindnesses received. People in general. Allah loves the good-doers Qur 'an 3: Allah ordered me to keep relations with those that cut me off. We should not be surprised when we hear that people who remember Allah are at peace. Repeat His beautiful blessed name.

He is near when supplicated: He hears when He is called and He answers when He is invoked. His remembrance carries with it the meaning of total dependence upon Him. Mention His praises. What is truly surprising negligent and unmindful survive without remembering is how the Him. Read the various revealed texts that refer to the remembrance of Allah. The curse of the jealous one is that he contests fate and contends that his Creator is unjust. The jealous person lights a fire and then jumps into it.

It is said that there is no repose for the jealous one and that he is an enemy wearing the garb of a friend. How like a disease is jealousy. The jealous person shall remain in fury until the day he dies. By being jealous of others. I forbid both you and myself from jealousy. We seek refuge in Allah from the evil of the jealous one. Jealousy begets grief. So Allah gave them the reward of this world. In doing justice to the disease of jealousy. Everyone can be reconciled except the jealous one.

If you were to do this. It is necessary for us to make amends: Thus goodness. You will not find a father. The Prophet. Accept life as it is and adapt accordingly to all circumstances. You will not find in this world such things as the flawless companion or the perfect situation. Life means responsibility. Allah has willed for this world to be filled with two opposites: Accept life as it is The pleasures of life are short-lived. So stay far away from jealousy and seek refuge in Allah from the jealous person.

Accept hie as it is 53 poisonous snake. Life can be peaceful. Do you not see the afflicted and the unfortunate? How many tribulations patience?

You must also compare your difficulties with the difficulties of those around you. In the morning castles are bustling with inhabitants. So praise Allah for His kindness.

How many men and women have lost their dear children in the prime of youth? How many people are troubled or tormented? Find consolation with those that are worse off than you.

How many sick people remain for years while suffering from unspeakable pain? And Weput forth [many] parables for you Qur 'an The entrails of a camel were placed upon his head. The prayer. Prophet Zakariyah Zacharia was killed.. Seek help in patience and the Prayer. The prayer you perform it sincerely with a wakeful heart this effect for you. Prophet Ibraheem Abraham was thrown in the fire. They were afflicted with severe poverty. You have a perfect example in the Prophet bpuh.

Prophet Yahya John was slaughtered. Prophet Moosa Moses was afflicted with great trials. Many or tortured. As for those that keep away from the Mosque and away from prayer. I have read biographies of many righteous people. This generation. Give us comfort and call for the prayer. Prayer is also a potent remedy for our sicknesses. By earnestly performing the five daily prayers. The Prayer of Fear which is performed during battle was prescribed in situations wherein limbs are severed. If we do not do this.

Whenever the Prophet bpuh was afflicted with hardship. No harm touched them. Allah made the fire to be cool. As a result When Prophet Ibraheem Abraham was placed in the fire. Live your lives according to this precept: Allah Alone is sufficient for us.

If you have meager means. When the Prophet Muhammad bpuh and his Companions were threatened by the impending attack of the enemy. When you incorporate these qualities into your character. This is because man was created weak and fragile.

Leave your home and contemplate that which surrounds you.. Travel in the land.. During your journeys. Climb mountains. Then why do you surrender yourself to misery and solitude?

Call out with your eyes. To isolate yourself to the confines of your own room. Your room is not the only place in the world. Travel in the land. There is one activity worthy of mention here.

Leave your home and remove the black blindfold from your eyes. Qur 'an 6: Therefore go forth and find delight in traveling. This is the way of the noble-minded: Have the patience of one who is confident of forthcoming ease. But we must consider this. Do you have an alternative solution? Do you know of any provision that is better than patience? Those that achieve greatness have to surmount an ocean of difficulties and hardships before finally achieving success.

Through this constant conflict. You have not created [all this without purpose. For truly. Know that each time you escape a difficulty you will have to face another. Have patience. Therefore be patient and know that your patience is on ly through Allah.

Patience is mostfitting 59 doctors Traveling recommend. They are forever perturbed and vexed.

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At a time of calamity. But the reverse is true for the weak-hearted: Let the ground carry the burden of those things that happen. Do not carry the weight of the globe on your shoulders In a certain class of people there rages an internal war. Everything frustrates these people: Some people have a heart that is like a sponge. The one who has such a heart is selfIt is troubled by the most insignificant of matters. Hardship fell upon their heads like the lashing of freezing rain and yet they were as firm as mountains.

Those who are principled and are upon the true path are not shaken by hardship. P My advice to you is this: I became amazed at the amount of patience they displayed.

And then. It is a war that results in ulcers or an increase in blood pressure. May mercy descend upon the weakhearted.

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On the other hand. Observe the Hypocrites and how weak they are in their resolution. The Qur'an relates to us some of their sayings: Do not he crushed bv what is insignificant 61 possessed - he has finn faith and cool nerves.

And if it does not merit your energy and time. They never once raise their eyes to a life of ideals and virtues. This is an indispensable question. Such are the calamities of these people. And they lay not open. Therefore reflect on that which gives you cause for concern or anxiety. They but wished to flee Qur 'an It has been said. And stay away from immoderation or from. Some people are distressed day and night. They have no aspiration to higher principles or goals to keep them busy.

Their principal concerns are for their stomachs. Psychologists say that you should judge everything in proportion to its true value and then put it in its proper place. More truthful than this is the saying of Allah: On the contrary.. Look at those that have obtained degrees from world-renowned universities.

If you follow this advice. They deviated from what their inborn instincts were telling them. Be content with that which Allah has given you and you will be the richest of people Wealth.

Be content with that which Allah has given you. Hence they were blessed in their lives. Take from the example of the Prophet's Companions. With them was a man whose concern was focused on a missing camel. Certain educators go further than this by saying that you should imagine being contented with even less than you actually have now. Their talents and abilities remain unused. Here for you is a list of those who have shone from our Islamic heritage despite each being challenged by various disadvantages: If you are a seeker of happiness.

He was a freed slave. Zakariah Zacharia a carpenter. Al-A'mash was among the most famous scholars ofhadith in his time. He was not only a freed slave and snub-nosed. Dawood David was a blacksmith. Al-Ahnaf ibn Qays was famous among the Arabs for his singular level of patience. He achieved that fame despite being emaciated.

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Do not feel grief. His clothes were ripped. Therefore your value is in your abilities. They wish for nothing to spoil them in their state of felicity. Have we reflected at length about the description of the inhabitants of Paradise? Illness does not befall them. They will be the most affected by insignificant lives that they lead. Its rivers are constant. They see and think only of this impermanent life. If you are hungry in this world.

The rider travels under a tree in Paradise for one hundred years and yet he still does not reach its end.

The most wise of people are those that work for the Hereafter. And the most foolish of mankind are those that see this world as their eternal abode in it reside all of of the their hopes. They would listen attentively when they description. The length of a tent in Paradise is sixty miles. You will find such people to be the most grief-stricken worldly loss simply because they see nothing beyond all when faced with calamity. In Paradise is found that which no eye has seen. Were they to remove the veil of ignorance from their eyes.

If you do this. They are in a beautiful home.. Living according to hearsay and superstition is prohibited in our. The best course is the middle course. Exaggeration in our dealings with others is unacceptable. Because overcome Religion. D' you who live in poverty. Therein will be thrones raised high. Whoever follows his desires will likely magnify the importance of any given situation. He will feel jealousy and malice toward others.

Since he lives in a world of exaggeration and imagination. Whoever seeks happiness should be just. Here is something you should try: Qur 'an 3: And Allah has power [over all things]. Do not follow false suspicion or the deceitful illusion of the mirage. Listen to the balance of love and hate as explained by the Prophet Blessings and Peace be upon him: Allah informs us that: Most Merciful Qur 'an In any given situation do not exaggerate mountains from molehills.

And hate the one whom you detest in due moderation. I se ek refuge in you from anxiety and grief. The most beloved thing to the Devil is to make the worshipper sad in order to prevent him from continuing on his path. Both of them weaken the heart. Despite what has been mentioned above. The difference between the two is that if a bad feeling is related to what is going to happen in the future.

There is no real benefit to sadness. The Muslim must repel sadness and fight it in any way that is permissible Religion. And if the cause of this feeling concerns the past. When they enter Paradise. The heart benefits nothing through grief. Sadness prevents one from action instead of compelling one towards it.

So whenever one is overcome by grief and there is no way to avoid it. As for the saying of Allah. When one feels sad because he was negligent in fulfilling the rights of Allah.

Therefore the good kind of grief is that which stems from missing out an opportunity to do a good deed or from performing a sin. Allah will make it an atonement for some of his sins. This occurred when they remained behind during one of the Prophet's expeditions.

The verse also exposed the hypocrites. As for the hadith. And if the worshipper is tested by this trial. If this were the case. How could he have been continually in grief when Allah had informed him that he was forgiven for everything guaranteeing his entry into Paradise and had protected him from feeling grief over matters pertaining to this life: And as for the alleged hadith.

He came to free our souls from the tyranny of doubt. He came to save our souls from destruction. Not only is the hadith weak because of its chain of narrators. But he didn't search out for misery. Allah loves all sad hearts. Even if we were to suppose the hadith to be authentic. So many indeed are the favors that were bestowed upon mankind through him Blessings and Peace be upon him.

Allah forbade him from feeling grief over the actions of the disbelievers? How could he have felt griefwhen all the time his heart was filled with the remembrance of Allah. As for the hadith of Hind. Whoever delves deeply into his life will know that he came to remove falsehood and to eradicate anxiety.

In this verse. Their yearnings. Being sad is not encouraged in our religion 71 through patience. Simply informing about something does not in itself signify either approval or disapproval of that thing. So if the hearts of the faithful grieve. And ifhe hates one of his slaves. Allah says of his Prophet Israa "eel Israel: Those who incline towards extremes in asceticism also relate the following narration: This is contrary to the sadness of the evildoers.

The fact is that we have been ordered to seek refuge from sadness. As for those who have praised melancholy and have lauded its many virtues while claiming that our religion encourages it then they are very mistaken. He makes that slave's heart that of a weeper. And make well for me all of my affairs. He is the Ever-Living and the One who sustains and protects all that exists. There is none worthy of worship except Allah. Take a moment to reflect Let us make these supplications.

Your mercy do 1 hope for. There is none worthy of worship except You. The achievement of this is an early reward. You are required to seek the means of happiness and peace. And the noblest of people.

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Muhammad laugh. Your order concerning me will be executed and just is Yourjudgment upon me. It has a strong influence on keeping the soul light and the heart clear. Abu Darda' may Allah be pleased with him said. J ask You by all of Your names that you have named Yourselfwith. Smile 73 "There is none worthy of worship except You. They believed this to be a sign of a generous personality and of a person who has a noble disposition and a clear mind. Islam does not condone a rigid.

They laughed at them. The truth is that the principles of Islam are based on moderation and on good measure. For what is great wealth if it begets misery? And what is high position gloominess? In a sense. There are those souls that are able to tum everything into misery. I would choose the latter. Therefore the person whose heart is sullied cannot see things as they truly are.

They are more prepared to face difficulties and to find expedient solutions for them. If the spectacles become dirty. Smile 75 "People who are always smiling not only make their own lives more joyful. As such he is an anomaly and at odds with the natural harmony of all that surrounds him. They are prolific workers who benefit themselves and others. So if our actions are noble. The oceans. Every person sees the world through himsclf-v. Any word that he hears he interprets in the worst possible way.

No matter how great their possessions. It is much better for a person to plant love in his life than to glorify money. Their ability to do well is negligent. All that moves them is the coming and going of money into or out of their pockets. He is affected gravely by the most insignificant of things that occur to him. Such people have much ability to over-exaggerate the trifles that occur to them. Then there is the man who brings misery upon his own self and.

Today is black because a piece of fine china broke or because the cook put too much salt in the food. Most people do not open their eyes to the beauty of life. Thus they make mountains out of molehills. The whole world from his perspective is black. They have reversed this fact. He is drawn into misery by profits lost. What is life when all its energies are exploited and used for the sole purpose of accumulating wealth. Then she flares up and curses.

Life is like an art or a science: Money is but a means to a happy life. They pass by a lush and luxuriant garden. Hence you must identify your goal. This can be exemplified as follows.


The door to opportunity is always open to you and to others. And if you believe that your calling in life is to achieve extraordinary feats. Therefore the soul gives resolution and will power in proportion to your goal. If you want to be a smiling person. So indoctrinate your mind with hopes of prosperity in the future. Blessed is the one who has a teacher that helps him to develop his natural abilities and broaden his horizons.

The answer is despondency. Whoever enters a m race will feel tired the moment he completes it. The heart should be and a genuine love for to it. Smile 77 body has been equipped with eyes to see beauty with. If you believe that you are inconsequential and have been created for things of only minor importance. And never feel despondency as long as everyday you are taking a new step in its direction. The soul should be like the sun. The best teacher is the one that instills kindness and generosity into his pupil.

What blocks the soul. Nothing causes the soul or the face to frown more often and with more intensity than despondency. Problems are comparable to a vicious dog. The frowning soul. When it sees you scared or running away. So when he embarks upon a project. It loves success in life. Allah has revealed to me that you should be humble. While the remarkable person increases in worthiness by overcoming obstacles.

Conceitedness means to rely upon a deceitful imagination and false pride. It waits only for gold to shower down upon it. Difficult things in life are only relative. Confidence means to rely upon true abilities. On every path. The Prophet said: Thus he fails. How much in need we indeed are of a smile. It is important to note.

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Having self-confidence is a noble virtue. When it sees problems. You lost your business. Do not be sad: Sadness causes you to imagine poison when you are really looking at pure water. Pause to reflect 79 another. Truly a large mansion will not protect you from the effects of depression. Your father passed away. You became depressed because of poverty and this only increased the bitterness of your situation. You have two eyes. You became sullen because you expected. You became gloomy because of what your enemies said to you.

Your son failed in school. Did this change your situation by transforming losses into profits? You became despondent due to a calamity. How many painful experiences did the best writers have to undergo. The student who lives the life of comfort and repose and who is not stung by hardships. You might remember that. He felt burdened with pain at the beginning but he shined at the end. This is because nerves.

When he is the student often feels the pangs of heavy burden. The aches and pangs of passion. You have the true Religion to live by. This is because his words pour forth from his tongue and not from his feelings or emotion.

At times a person benefits when he feels pam. The blessing of pain Pain is not always a negative force and it is not something that you should always hate.

They were in truth chosen ones. It might well be that through pain and suffering you will become stronger. They felt the pains of hunger. The well-known line he spoke. A llah wastes not the reward of the doers of good. And furthermore. The blessing ofpain More worthy and relevant to the aforementioned the lives of the early believers.

An-Nu'rnaan ibn Mundhir threatened AnNaabighah with death. They were models of purity. Qur'an 3: I have read books filled with sermons that do not shake a hair on the body of the listener and that lack an atom's weight of impact.

The orator whose sermons were put to print is not speaking with feeling and sentiment. Hence the works of such authors were cold. You must be moved yourself by the meanings of what you are trying to convey. This is because their authors I have read many books of poetry. He gives him an understanding of the Religion. Ignorance is boredom and grief. If you desire happiness. The soul. It is life for one's soul and fuel for one's character.

Increase me in knowledge ' Qur 'an In the Name of your Lord. Qur 'an. Who has created [all that exists. Yesterday is like today. More delightful to me than the sound of a woman's hand on the drum.

My rapturous exhilaration when understanding a difficult concept. It has been said that happiness is an art that needs. And through it. For in happiness the mind is clear. Do I toil through the night. The art of happiness Among the greatest of blessings is to have a calm. Therefore you should neither nor be should swayed you nor be governed by by difficult circumstances.

When you train yourself The opposite of being content is being to be patient and shortsighted. Based on the purity of the heart and its ability to endure. Basic to the art of happiness is to bridle our thoughts and to restrain them.

And if you learn it. They think not of others. The art ofhappiness 85 to be learned. For if you were to leave your thoughts to wander as they wish. By doing this we gain two things: Tfyour thoughts are left to roam. They will open the catalogue of your past woes. Therefore bridle them It is incumbent upon you and I to take time out to be preoccupied with more than just us.

Allah described his enemies as follows: It is as if such people see themselves universe. But how does one learn it? A basic principle of achieving happiness is having an ability to endure and to cope with any situation.

They will remind you of the history of your misfortunes. These thoughts will shake your very being and will cause your feelings to flare.

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